Here’s a useful guide to help you evaluate your doctor:

A really good doctor:

• Asks why you’re there and what you hope to get out of the appointment.

• Is respectful to you and family members who are with you.

• Is respectful of your time.

• Listens to and responds to your questions in understandable, non-jargon language so you can make informed decisions.

• Is scientifically up to date.

• Doesn’t mind if you get a second opinion.

• Doesn’t make you feel embarrassed or stupid for asking questions.

• Treats you as a partner in care, rather than a recipient.

• Returns phone calls or emails promptly.

• Makes appointments easy to make, with minimal waiting times.

• Makes you feel comfortable enough to have an open and honest discussion.

A not-so-good doctor:

• Is dismissive of your questions and concerns.

• Leaves you feeling unsatisfied and unsure of your treatment and other issues.

• Doesn’t welcome second opinions.

• Is disrespectful of you, family members, office staff.

• Makes you feel too uncomfortable to have an open, honest discussion.

• Has State Medical Board disciplinary violations.

• Makes it difficult to book appointments (it can take weeks or months).

• Isn’t available to you during off hours.